“Going to Tibet alone is more about exploring the unknown and enriching meanings of life that are rarely examined. In this interview, Ms. Su gave more thoughts on this wonderful chapter of life based on her own life experience.”
Q1: Why did you decide to travel to Tibet alone at that time? Was it to escape the hustle and bustle of the city and immerse yourself in nature?
A: When I was 36 years old, I unexpectedly met a friend who was planning a trip to Tibet. Inspired by the idea, I decided to join them on this adventure. Prior to leaving, I made arrangements with my family, leaving behind my bank cards and assets under their care. After discussing my plans with them, I embarked on the journey to Tibet. Unfortunately, my travel companions fell ill due to the high altitude sickness. As a result, I ended up completing the entire trip to Tibet on my own, which appeared to be a more than invaluable experience.
I have always been passionate about nature, plants, and meditations. This journey alone to Tibet was also a journey of self-reflection like a pilgrimage.
Q2: Since the railway to Tibet was not yet widely used during that time, how did you manage to reach Tibet?
A: I traveled by plane. I departed from my city, passing through Xi'an, and arrived in Lhasa. At that time, very few people ventured to Lhasa, making it quite an uncommon destination.
Q3: Could you share your experience of flying in a small plane with five people? How did you feel during the journey?
A: Due to unforeseen circumstances, we had to change planes. Given the scarcity of travelers to Lhasa at that time, only five of us, including the pilot, were on board. Although I had taken long-distance flights in the past, this particular flight felt like an exhilarating roller coaster ride, filled with thrilling moments. It was only when the aircraft landed safely that I felt a sense of relief. Looking back, I realize I was quite fearless and fortunate, attributing the smooth journey to the pilot's skill and expertise.
Q4: In today's popular culture, there is a term known as "slack off." As someone who embarks on adventures and fearlessly explores the unknown even at your age, how do you perceive the life orientation of young people today? Feel free to share based on your own experiences.
A: Each person's life journey is shaped by unique experiences, encounters different challenges at various stages, and consequently develops distinct perspectives and outcomes. Personally, I choose to approach life positively and optimistically, regardless of the circumstances. In my view, the concept of "slack off" seems somewhat lacking in positivity. However, I am open-minded and even appreciative of diverse life choices and attitudes. During my youth, I was a daring individual and even now, as an interior designer, many of my choices tend to be unconventional or ahead of their time. For instance, I might opt for aesthetic styles that were not popular or combine conflicting styles, all of which resonate with my bold personality. In one of the rooms in my house, I used wall colors resembling the red and dark green hues reminiscent of the Potala Palace in Tibet—a choice that few would make. "Slack off" can potentially diminish the excitement and interesting experiences that life has to offer.
Q5: Did you experience altitude sickness during that time? How did you manage it?
A: Due to the tight schedule and numerous unexpected changes throughout the trip, I was not adequately prepared, and I found myself a bit lost. The occurrence of several issues made me quite nervous, and I began to feel the effects of altitude sickness near the Lhasa airport. Fortunately, the driver who picked me up was incredibly kind and experienced. After pulling over, he reassured me to relax and not be anxious. Gradually, as I sipped hot water and took my time, I started to feel better.
Q6: Upon entering Tibet alone, did you undergo any significant psychological or physical transformations initially?
A: Perhaps due to the solitude and the vast cultural differences between Tibet and my hometown, a sense of tranquility enveloped me. Witnessing the devout actions of the worshippers was deeply moving. Venturing to Tibet alone granted me precious time for self-reflection, away from the familiarities of family and work environments.
Q7: During your journey in Tibet, what new understandings and insights did you gain about freedom?
A: Freedom is not about abandoning oneself or acting irresponsibly. It is a profound feeling that involves cultivating an open mind while remaining connected to one's authentic self. True freedom lies in having an unbounded spirit, letting go of attachments, embracing acceptance, and allowing nature to take its course.
Q8: What is your motto or guiding principle in life?
A: Life is filled with unexpected choices and responsibilities, often presenting unforeseen circumstances. It is challenging to discern whether tomorrow or an unforeseen event will come first—it's like unwrapping a bar of chocolate, never knowing what you'll get. In life, I strive to honor the values that align with my innermost being.
Conclusion: embarking on a life filled with unknowns is a profoundly enriching experience. When one embraces the joy that comes from exploring the uncharted, an extraordinary inner peace is discovered.
Producer: Isabella Wang
Interviewer & Text: Xuanting Sun
Formatting: Amy Pan
Correction: Isabel Yang
Translator: Ivy X. Yang
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